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“Get them out of here so I can die,” he said looking straight at me.”

“Grandma and I are just sitting on her bed talking to the beautiful golden lady,” the little girl told me mater-of-factually.

“Suddenly the eyes that had looked at us blankly for years were filled with intelligence and she was there”

Excerpts from “Closing Chapters”

About joan

Joan grew up in Southwestern Montana the oldest of four children. In 1980, at the beginning of the hospice movement in the U.S., she became a hospice nurse. Over the course of 50 years, Joan helped numerous patients and their families through the difficult transition from this life to the next. Although retired, Joan continues to offer advice, comfort, and support to terminally ill family, friends and acquaintances.

About Closing Chapters

Joan Stempel, a nurse with over thirty years experience has written a book which gives us a very unique and personal picture of dying. Sharing her work caring for dying family members and friends as well as hospice patients. she presents us with a compassionate approach to end-of-life issues and helps us find the words we need to address the many issues that arise when someone we love is dying. Not only is this book a wealth of information, it also takes death, which is often viewed as a frightening and sad experience, and shows us the beauty and grace which can be found in the final chapter of our lives.

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A valuable read on an important topic

“In this highly readable book, Stempel summarizes lessons learned from a career as a hospice nurse. Through a series of short stories, involving family, friends and hospice patients, the author explores a myriad of dynamics surrounding the end of life. Highly recommended for anyone working in palliative care or hospice environments.”

-Thomas R. Egnew, EdD

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Sensitive, Insightful, Comforting

“Not since Callan and Kelley’s publication of FINAL GIFTS, has another important work emerged to enlighten and inspire us about the end of life. Joan Stempel at last has taken written a masterful collection of actual accounts she was privileged to share with hospice patients and families. Stempel takes us on journeys from diagnosis to death helping us understand the unique experiences of those transitioning from this life and the roles their love ones play in the in this final chapter of life. I highly recommend this book to those facing end-of-life, family and friends anticipating loss, anyone having unresolved grief, and professionals who help people with these issues.”

-Nancy Fishman, PhD Psychologist

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This should be the next book your book group reads!

“Like most of us I was reluctant to pick up a book about dying (!) My fears were quickly overturned by Joan Stempel’s direct and engaging style. I found myself turning page after page completing the book in just two short sessions. This book is really the best of both worlds—although told through stories, each story has a central message. I wish I had known about this book when my Dad entered hospice as it was confusing for all of us.”

-Lori Mains